Mariah Huq

Mariah discusses her feelings about Kari and Toya and where the group can go from here.

on May 19, 20130

Toya: Both of us realize that our friendship will never be the same. The issues that you have with Quad and the issues that you have with me are a direct result of you having diarrhea of the mouth. I know that I’m an easy target for you to blame anything negative, but we both know that Quad didn’t learn about that incident from me. Stop with the madness!

Over the last couple of episodes, several of the ladies have made comments that Quad is so different when the two of us aren’t together. How insulting. Quad is a college educated, successful career woman who is happily married. She has a mind of her own and cannot be manipulated. She is no one’s puppet or mouthpiece. Our friendship is not based on the two of us agreeing on every subject. It is not predicated that both of us have to like or dislike someone. As I have previously written, our friendship is based on respect. It’s sad that throughout the season these ladies continued to exclude her to events or gatherings because of our friendship. Every person has the right to be judged as an individual and the ability to make their own choices. I can only assume that’s not the case with Toya and Kari’s friendship since they both canceled for the dinner at my house after initially agreeing to attend. It would have been nice to have a final meal with ALL of the ladies before heading in different directions, but the olive branch that I extended was rejected.

Every circle starts at a specific point and ends at the same place. It was fitting that the last gathering took place at my home since that is where this journey begun. While some may not like it, best believe that I’m not going anywhere! And I’m not going to allow two bad apples to ruin the whole bunch. I’d much prefer to throw out the rotten ones and go pick new, ripe, shiny apples with A LOT more nutrients and A LOT less defects!

526 comments
The.princess
The.princess

I am disappointed that one of the Married to Medicine ladies has so much say(owner of the show?). To make a show interesting, people will not always agree - sparks fly. I enjoyed the show, but my daughter, who got me hooked on Bravo shows, and I didn't enjoy the level of  hurt that this show went to (the fight) . To think, a lady who got that physical calls the shots as to who will still be on the show, wow? Just too controlling for me. I liked Kari and Toya, I want them to stay . You and Quad - fun to watch, but not with all the say as to who stays or goes? Is that the plan? Come on, I wont watch if one lady decides everything, (unless it's Dr. Jackie- love her!). Be reasonable, keep those two - especially Kari, she was reacting to the nonsense in her own way.

LON1234
LON1234

Mariah,

 

I think the show is great... To see educated and professional women is wonderful. I think Kari and Toya demonstrate negative stereotypes of women- regardless of money the two ladies need to be replaced due to their attitudes and or behaviors. Granted the fight was not cool but  Kari and Toya are mean and haters.

EloiseM
EloiseM

SPEAK MRS. HUG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Absolutely LOVE this blog that you have written.  Love you much and thanks for the wonderful/decent/informative/encouraging to all women SHOW.  Now that's HOW YOU DO IT!!!!!!

ledmon1
ledmon1

Hope you really meant what you said in your blog seriously Toya and Kari do not need to return.  Toya is just trying to me nice so that she can stay on the show.

charnorm
charnorm

Get rid of Toya and Kari! There is reality drama and then there is "your going to get your ass kicked drama", you know that cross the line stuff or as you and Quad put it, Shady Boots. You can have the reality tv model that makes money, but I feel the way these two went about trying to destroy the person that is responsible for them being on the show is sad. This show has helped both of their husbands, and they owe you for that.

Tha_truth
Tha_truth

Mariah is trash and so is her cohort Quad. They both need lessons in class. Obviously marrying doctors hasn't done anything for their frame of mind.

lovinglifetothefullest2
lovinglifetothefullest2

Mariah you wasn't wrong that Toya is a shade queen honey all show she been showing out and I feel you she always through you shade I wouldn't trust her a** and that Kari I would've been popped her in the month she's a mess to and them to together they wonna s*** on you and quad cause how ya;ll speak and where you come from girl bye ya they need to get off the show you and Quad make the show cause without ya'll I would have not watched Quad is from Memphis and honey I love where I'm from I love both of ya'll

phoebe51
phoebe51

Girl, come on now. Even if it is true about Toya you should know better than to hit another woman. Not too classy. I'm so tired of your excuses & EGO!

stacy38
stacy38

Mariah!! Please dismiss the 2 shady palms we have enough DRAMA with Atlanta Housewives. Toya is DEAD WRONG!!!She is  Nasty, 2 faced . Tell the housewife goodbye.

bravofan12
bravofan12

why is it that you and Quad express such nastiness with your face expressions?  Not attractive.

jazziegirl58
jazziegirl58

When you repeat something to a hair dresser, you have to know that they will repeat it, it's what they do!  So I'd be angry too, Toya changed the course of life for an 8 year old, no forgiveness for that.  Also, I'm glad Mariah checked goody too shoes Jackie, (silence is golden), which means, I'm not going to take sides.  I said it before and I'll say it again, why is Kari on this show?  Toya, had two cases, instead of falling on the sword like Quad, she plays dumb, well maybe she wasn't playing.  Any who, I look forward to a new crew  and a new season.  There should have been some loyalty considering Mariah put these girls together.  They are really planning a hostile takeover.  My guess is that Mariah's paper is water tight. 

Dei
Dei

THANK YOU MARIAH!!! YEs.. I totally agree it is disheartening that the show was edited to only show the drama when there are so many more positive things that need to be shown. Such as the blending of two separate cultures as a family. I myself would love to see more of that. I sincerely hope that the next season begins with those we saw surrounded at your table at the end of the show. The kind of drama that Toya and Kari bring is a dime a dozen and we have to many shows like that already. There are too many beautiful, well educated, business minded women on this show for it to be placed in the Ghetto category. Those other two can kick rocks. You are so much better then that. That's one thing that I do know

cranberrylaw
cranberrylaw

What Toya did was wrong, without a doubt, she should have never gossiped about such private and sensitive information. So now you know you cannot trust her, learn from this experience and move on. 

 

If you feel the other ladies are not taking your side or demonstrating their sympathy for your situation, Toya is not to blame for that. It is your behavior and you. 

 

As a woman of color myself I find your behavior embarrassing and poor representation of females and specifically minorities. If you want people to treat you with respect than you need to give people respect. You need to stop with all that made up language and silly meaningless phrases. Have a real conversation. That means you must give people an opportunity to speak and  actually listen to what you have to say. 

ana.moreno.56
ana.moreno.56

There is only one Tamar Bracton Marah and Quad you both need to quit trying to talk like Tamar it's not cute on you both that's Tamar's thing find your own

rzanna
rzanna

I think your bigotry against Kari is sad, because it belittles you and makes you look like a victim.  Kari comes from another culture, something you fail to understand every time you make fun of her accent.  She was born overseas in England.  Why do you fail to understand that?  You do sound ghetto, and being married to a physician does not change that.  Enjoy your victimhood.  I hope it works out for you.

sisterloclove
sisterloclove

The adoption situation should be over.  It is a beautiful thing that your husband did adopting your daughter.  Did you ever think that maybe Tonya did not mean to let the cat out of the bag?  I mean what if you found out that what she said wasn't negative at all, then what?  You have so much anger, I can't believe someone so beautiful is angry all the time.  I am starting to look at you differently.  I love our inter-racial relationship, the fact that your husband adopted your daughter, and that all of you women have a different role to play.  Please get over the one mistake Tonya made and make up with each other.  You know you want to and she does to.  Stop being so stubborn please.

Consciousness
Consciousness

Mariah, if you are going to be picking who is going to be on the show for the next season, please don't include Toya back on the show, she is soo jealous of you! She is a nasty girl! I LOVE YOU MARIAH, DO YOU ALWAYS!

onpoint123
onpoint123

I was hoping you had more class, all hope is gone.  Your mother^s behavior is not that of a mother , keep her off the show.

HRHLori
HRHLori

Mariah disrespected herself and her family when she told her daughter's business!  Everyone said other people knew so what is the problem.  Forgive yourself and move on!  Stop blaming someone else because you're not strong enough to face the truth!

HRHLori
HRHLori

It is crazy for Mariah to take offense to any of this unless she starts with herself.  Why should she expect everyone to hold her daughter's issue so high when she didn't because if she had she would not have told ANYONE!  So just stop begging for attention.  You should be mad at yourself period and leave everyone else alone. 

shoman66
shoman66

I love watching the Bravo shows - especially the Housewives, but when MtoM was advertise, I had no interest in watching it. Now that I have seen it, I wish I had stuck to my guns. I am embarrassed for Mariah - the biggest reason is that she contradicts herself and she is the biggest hypocrite that has ever been on TV. 

Purple86
Purple86

If Mariah has the power as producer to get rid of Kari and Toya, then she should have thepower to prevent her adoption "secret" from being filmed.  She can't claim to have power to do one but not the other.  She has a forked tongue.

bay4565
bay4565

Mariah, please just leave the show. Do your husband and your family a favor and leave. You are such an embarrassment to your family and the medical community. You need to shut up and stop talking so much. Think before you speak! I feel so sorry for your husband. You are not a good example of a Doctors wife at all. Class is something you either have or don't and you don't have any.  You really need to listen more and stop talking so much.

ladybug11
ladybug11

You act so getto for a woman who is suppose to have class...so sad

Andimaze
Andimaze

Loved you when I first met you ...now? Not so much. Not sure who you really are.

larrydean
larrydean

People will always be challenged with life's curveballs, but the HuQs are obviously a very strong family and are weathering the storm quite well. The reunion show should be fantastic! Always a big fan of the HuQs!

Ming
Ming

Excellent read Miss Mariah....salam alakum sistah ;)

 

kosven
kosven

At the end of the day you have definitely shined! From your family to your career, you have everything to be proud of. Looking forward to the reunion show! #IncredibleHuQs #TeamMariah

Valarie10196@Msn.com
Valarie10196@Msn.com

 @phoebe51 Be a lady phoebe51 and let a WOMAN throw a drink fill GLASS in your face....Oh use YOUR ego to deflate the impact...REALLY!

shakysha
shakysha

 @stacy38 Oh and she can't stand alone.. See how fast she look for Mariah's enemy.. Now that's a weak person!

valeriepeters
valeriepeters

@stacy38 you dont get it. toya and kari.are.ladies

charnorm
charnorm

You obviouly do not understand two friends who have their own way of expressing and communicating. That's real friendship, when you know what your girlfriend is going to saw before she says it. So watching Toya roll her eyes, and watching Kari's lips move was what?

Valarie10196@Msn.com
Valarie10196@Msn.com

 @jazziegirl58 Hey  jazzie, the old saying applies to both Kari AND TOY  {Toya}, best to be thought a fool, than SPEAK and remove all doubt....

 

snooganups
snooganups

 @cranberrylaw  i feel that it was mariah"s fault .she should have NEVER told toya about her family"s secret about her daughter, as she should have known that  gossip will travel...also toya did not ruined her daughter's LIFE, the child is old enough to be told and understand about her being adopted, after all was said mariah and her husband told the child the story of her adoption, and mariah started the show but she does not have the final say in who goes or who stays! mariah needs to grow up and stop acting so foolish!

Lhaywood
Lhaywood

very well said!  Mirah does need to stop with her mocking of others, her third party person silliness and act like a lady.

gagyrl30458
gagyrl30458

Ummm...darling it is Tamar Braxton...and I agree with Mariah (not marah) Tamar definitely did not invent 3rd person convo. Catch that dirt...LOL

Valarie10196@Msn.com
Valarie10196@Msn.com

 @rzanna Being from another county does not and should afford one to use that as a means of cultural insult with smiles.  Take that "darling" crap and ride it back to England.  Everybody in England does NOT channel their energies in the manner in which Kari did, or does.  Best you watch the show again...  Then she says, "oh I was not serious."  Worse she sat there and placed ALL the negtive things said, on TOY  [Toya}  and TOY sat there like most puppets do; accepting the maniupative moves of the GREAT puppet Master - Kari!  so be gone "MRS.  Misguided."

patty49
patty49

 @rzanna

 maybe Kari can give you some lessons on how to talk and act like a lady!!!

babycakes24
babycakes24

 @Consciousness If anyone is to go home it should be Mariah (the queen B) Huq herself. Ya can't take the heat then get out the kitchen, because this is reality TV and this is what it's about, Mariah Sucks and is a very very poor example of what is a Doctor's Wife, and she should be ashamed of herself

 

Lhaywood
Lhaywood

Mirah shouldn't be picking anyone!  she keeps acting like it was her idea to include all these ladies, so what!  you need to get off the show if you can't act more mature and get out of the gehtto!  by the way, Mirah's Mom needs to stay off the show, she is a trouble maker!

shakysha
shakysha

 @HRHLori I'm sure it's obvious that the child isn't his Damn.Can a girl confide in a so-call friend. And why even talk about someone you call your friend to a hairdresser. I'm sure more was said. Toya needs to shut her trap.

 

babycakes24
babycakes24

 @shoman66 I agree sooo much with u, she is embarrased with herself but is too ashamed to admit and accept her mistakes, so she desperately seeks to throw the blame on someone else(Toya)

snooganups
snooganups

 @Purple86 The only power mariah has is power of her nasty mouth. she is not the producer. it took her three year's of trying to get the producer's to air the show. 

 

HousewifeRamona
HousewifeRamona

 @ladybug11

 I agree Lady bug  She is very getto  I fast forward it when Mariah  Bravo get some ladies with class

Neszoe
Neszoe

 @shakysha  @stacy38

 Sharkysha, They were all "friends" when the show started. Just not close and in different ways to Mariah. Toya didn't have to look for Mariah's enemies. Why would she chose enemies to suggest for the show....unless Mariah wanted the drama...hummmmmm

sassol
sassol

 @babycakes24  @Consciousness 

 

Sorry folks it's not gonna happen!  Better just accept it and look for someone else to hate on.   Better yet just stop watching the show. 

snooganups
snooganups

 @Lhaywood You are so right mariah will not be the one to make the final choice of who goes or who stay on the show, i think mariah should be the one who leaves....as is nothing but a s... starter.